3 MISTAKES OF MEN WHEN CHATTING

 

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You may have a strong body. However, if you make these 3 mistakes while chatting, you will look weak! Will lose respect with your interlocutor. Be it a woman, or a man. And unfortunately, these 3 things, 99% of people often do. So make sure you can avoid them while chatting.


 


1. Talking too much


When you both start to quiet down, it's as if someone should start a new topic of conversation. Origin is not silent. As long as something is said. As a result, the conversation widened everywhere. Not focus. Start a lot of lies that you spend. The solution, you have to get used to enjoying the silence. If there's nothing to talk about, just shut up. On the other hand, if you want to talk at length, as long as it's important to you, then do it too. The point is, talk if there is something important. Silence if there is nothing important to discuss.


 


2. talk about disgrace


This has become an ingrained habit. Every time you chat, you must discuss someone's disgrace. It's as if you're creating drama based on other people's lives. And if you talk about it here and there, your interlocutor will be disrespectful. He will also feel, if you will spread his disgrace to others.

Remember, there is a saying that says


Small mind discuss people. Average minds discuss events. Great minds discuss ideas.

Instead of spreading someone's ugliness, it's better to fill your chat with great ideas.


 


3. Can't keep secrets


This is the result of a combination of the two previous points: Too much talk and hobby spread disgrace. As a result, you are too late to tell people's secrets that only you should keep.


A man who can't keep a secret, is weak! Remember, those who have secrets, already believe this to you. When people know you can't keep their trust, their respect will immediately disappear.

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