4 MISTAKES OF MEN AFTER MARRIAGE

 


These 4 mistakes after marriage, make you forget your potential as a strong man. makes you weaker, even unconsciously can endanger yourself and your family. Here's the explanation.


1. You think it's normal to be bloated after marriage.


It's not just appearance. But more importantly, about health. Many people say, a distended stomach is a sign that you are more prosperous. Signs that you are comfortable with marriage. Even though in fact, a distended stomach is a sign that there is excess fat in your body. A sign that you are lazy to move, so that many calories accumulate as fat. Signs you have a higher risk of developing diabetes and heart disease.


So, stop thinking that a big belly after marriage is a good sign. Try to get your body back as good as before. If you can, even better. The method? Exercise and watch your diet.


2. Forgetting your ambitions and dreams


After marriage, many think that their main task now is to support their family. That's true, but don't forget your personal dreams and ambitions. Do not let your family, you make an excuse not to pursue dreams and ambitions. The truth is, after marriage, you can actually meet partners who can help you achieve your dreams.


Look at Mr. B.J. Habibie. Her career, name, goals, and dreams are even brighter after marriage. So make sure you share your dreams with your partner. Don't just forget it. But ask for support and help to make you achieve your dreams.



3. Trying to keep up with "other households"


"Oh, brother-in-law has bought a house at such an age, we also have to buy a house." "My friend already has a child, we should also have a child". Etc. In essence, you always look to other people to determine the fate of your household.


Instead of thinking and making your own decisions, you just copy too much of what other households are doing. In fact, they are different from you. Different backgrounds, different needs, different financial capabilities, different ambitions, etc. If you are still doing this, from now on focus. Look and identify what your household really needs. What really makes your household happy. Make decisions and set goals based on this.



4. Letting your household be run by someone else


If you are not the highest decision maker in the household, then something is wrong. Remember, you are the leader in the household. If you allow your household to be led by other people, you will definitely not be happy in the end. That's because they don't understand you, don't understand what your household really needs. Because other people, must only see from a third person's perspective. Don't live it straight away.


Ok, this doesn't mean you can't listen to suggestions from your wife, in-laws, parents, sister-in-law, or other parties. Instead, you should listen to their opinions and experiences. But make sure, the final decision is still in your hands! Show, if you are a strong leader!.

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