THESE 2 SIMPLE THINGS MAKE YOU MORE AUTHORITHATIVE
These two simple things can make you appear more authoritative and be taken seriously by others.
1. Talk, walk, move; slower
Many men aren't aware that they seem to be in a lot of hurry. Not calm. Move and talk as if they are being chased by something.
Just think, visualize. Who do you think is the most authoritative? How do they talk, walk, and move? Of course, they did it slowly, consciously, and steadily. Try to find their videos, and observe the habits.
One more thing, try to speak normally and record. Already? Try to listen. Say the same thing again, but make the tempo slower. Listen again. Surely, now your voice sounds more authoritative, right? So, get used to talking at that tempo in everyday life.
2. Comfortable in silence
If you are with other people, you should be able to feel comfortable in silence. And what is meant is silence, not busy with your cellphone. But silent, doing nothing, not talking, but not feeling awkward.
Usually, this is more difficult to do if you are with a woman. Silence a little, you immediately panic looking for another topic so that there is a conversation. In fact, if you can stay cool. Can look comfortable even when you're not talking, your authority will increase dramatically. You will be seen as a confident man. So next time, if there is no topic of conversation, try to be quiet. Do not talk until the other person you are talking to brings out the topic of conversation. It must have felt uncomfortable at first. But if you get used to it, you won't feel awkward doing it anymore.
Look at people who are authoritative. They talk as necessary. But once they talk, what they say is something meaningful.

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